We are so set on going through the motions of quick conversations in passing that we forget to listen to and care about what others are saying. It seems like there is an invisible timer ticking away the time for what we consider a suitable time spent talking to someone in passing. Sure, our time is valuable, but so is what someone is trying to say. And especially for a person with autism, the fact that they are attempting to be verbal deserves someone’s undivided attention. We like to think we run on a New York minute timetable, but we owe it to those around us to respect the time they need to communicate and listen to what they are trying to say. Kids on the spectrum are wonderfully unique in all they do. Communicating is no different. It can be one of the most daunting tasks for kids and even adults face when on the spectrum. While some may be social butterflies, others are unable to communicate the way you and I do. Imagine what it would be like if you could not express your wants and needs, desires and pains, and likes and dislikes. Frustration would be spewing from our ears like lava. But for families who may not have a verbal child with autism, they always find a way to make it work. That is the key in many situations dealing with someone on the spectrum. So what if things have to be done differently?! Communicating does not have to be orthodox. People communicate all over this world in different ways, and it is time we start acknowledging the unconventional ways of communicating. Whether it is flashcards, AAC devices, sign language, or whatever else works for a special person on the spectrum, I would hope we gain the patience to listen. Stay Curious, Kayla ©Inquisitive Perspectives 2018
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