Listening is one of the most important skills we can acquire. There are so many times we may hear the words coming out of someone’s mouth, but do we really listen to what the words they are saying mean? It is interesting that we learn how to talk, but some never learn how to listen. Stress can bring out the worst in us, or me at least. I can shut out the world, hunker down into the zone, and not return to civilization until assignments get done. While these are not my best ways of dealing with stress, I realize that we all deal with stress differently, but even so, we still must be present for those who need us most regardless of what kind of crazy is happening in our own life. I like to be the person other people feel comfortable coming to when they need someone to listen to. Everyone in this world needs and deserves to have that person. As I have said before and will forever stand by, everyone has a story that is worth listening to, and each time I hear a new piece of someone’s story, I feel like I get to know them that much more. When people feel comfortable telling their story to you, it may not necessarily be for advice or to get input on a matter. I know how good it feels just to dump out every emotion and the thoughts that are spinning in my head, and to have that release is cathartic in so many ways. It makes a difference having a person who is a deep, genuine listener. We may think we are great listeners, and that may be so, but there will always come opportunities in life to learn how to be a better listener. Stay Curious, Kayla ©Inquisitive Perspectives 2019
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